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Metsamdti is a private marriage matchmaking platform for people seeking a lifelong partner—not casual dating. The name comes from Tigrinya and means soulmates. You complete a values-based profile and questionnaire, have a short verified interview with our team, and receive one intentional match at a time with human review—no browsing or swiping.

Metsamdti is not a browsing app. You don't scroll through profiles or swipe. You receive one match at a time, carefully selected through a combination of our values-based algorithm, your questionnaire results, and a final human review. Every match is intentional, thoughtful, and curated with care.

Creating your profile, completing the questionnaire, and going through the interview process are part of joining Metsamdti at no separate membership fee for matching itself. When both people accept a match and want to talk, each person pays a one-time $39 fee to unlock the 24-hour chat window for that match. There is no subscription for endless swiping—only intentional, per-match communication.

Metsamdti is for adults who want marriage-minded, long-term partnership—not situationships or endless app browsing. It is for people who value clarity on values, goals, and commitment, and who are willing to complete a profile, interview, and curated matching process before chatting with one carefully selected match at a time.

After signing up, you can schedule a 15-minute interview with one of our team members. This conversation helps us understand who you are, what you want, your relationship goals, your values, and your expectations for a lifelong partner. It is not a test — it is a warm, human conversation that helps us match you with clarity.

Time slots may not always be immediately available. We ask for patience because this step is essential to creating a meaningful, intentional match for you. After completing your profile, you'll see available interview slots and can select a time that works for you.

Your compatibility reflects alignment between you and a potential partner based on your questionnaire answers—values, emotional preferences, relationship goals, and lifestyle factors—combined with insights from your verified interview. Our system weights these signals into a compatibility score that our matchmakers use alongside human review. You do not browse scores; we use them to select one intentional match at a time for you.

Metsamdti is not a browsing app. You don't scroll through profiles or swipe. You receive one match at a time, carefully selected through a combination of our values-based algorithm, your questionnaire results, and a final human review. Every match is intentional, thoughtful, and curated with care.

Once your profile and interview are complete, our team begins the matching process. When a match is ready, you receive a notification, you see a preview of the person, and you read a short explanation of why you were matched. You can then decide whether you want to open the chat window.

After signing up, you can schedule a 15-minute interview with one of our team members. This conversation helps us understand who you are, what you want, your relationship goals, your values, and your expectations for a lifelong partner. It is not a test — it is a warm, human conversation that helps us match you with clarity.

Time slots may not always be immediately available. We ask for patience because this step is essential to creating a meaningful, intentional match for you. After completing your profile, you'll see available interview slots and can select a time that works for you.

To begin communication, both people must unlock the chat by paying a one-time fee of $39 per match. This fee ensures both people are serious, prevents casual or impulsive chatting, and supports the human-curated matching process.

Once unlocked, the chat window stays open for 24 hours. During this time, you can talk, exchange contact details, and decide whether to continue the connection off-platform. After 24 hours, the chat closes automatically.

This structure protects your time, your emotional energy, your privacy, and your intention to find a lifelong partner. It removes the noise, pressure, and randomness of dating apps and replaces it with clarity, guidance, and human understanding.

To begin communication, both people must unlock the chat by paying a one-time fee of $39 per match. This fee ensures both people are serious, prevents casual or impulsive chatting, and supports the human-curated matching process.

The payment is non-refundable, as stated in our Terms of Service. This is because the service is delivered the moment the chat window opens.

Metsamdti is a guided matchmaking platform for people who want a lifelong partner. Modern dating has become loud, fast, and overwhelming. People swipe endlessly, talk for weeks without intention, and invest emotionally in connections that were never meant to last. Many enter relationships without clarity, only to discover—months or years later—that they wanted different things. Metsamdti was created to offer a different path.

This structure protects your time, your emotional energy, your privacy, and your intention to find a lifelong partner. It removes the noise, pressure, and randomness of dating apps and replaces it with clarity, guidance, and human understanding.