

Learn how we ensure connections rooted in values, creating meaningful relationships—not dating experiences.
OUR STORY
The name Metsamdti came from Tigrinya, and it means soulmates. That is our purpose: to help people find not just a companion, but a partner for life.
Too often, relationships begin without clarity. Couples spend years together, only to discover they wanted different things. Situationships, unasked questions, and hidden intentions leave people uncertain and hurt.
Metsamdti exists to change that. Here, you begin with honesty and direction. You know what you want — marriage, commitment, a partner to build a life with — and we honor that intention.

The Process
You begin with two gentle questionnaires about your values, lifestyle, and emotional style. They take around twenty minutes, and we invite you to give them your full focus. Your answers help us understand your marriage timeline, your future hopes, and the kind of partnership you're ready for.
After the questions, you create your account and verify your email. This keeps our space honest, intentional, and free from noise.
You choose a time for a warm, 15-minute interview. It's a moment for us to hear your story, understand your intentions, and meet you as a person — not just a profile.
Once we know you, we begin the matchmaking process. We combine your answers, your interview, our algorithm, and our intuition. This takes time, and we ask for your patience. Real matchmaking is thoughtful, not rushed.
You'll receive a notification with their profile and a gentle explanation of why the two of you were matched. You may accept or decline. If you decline, we continue searching with the same care.
If both of you accept, each pays the one-time $39 fee. Once both payments are complete, your private chat opens.
You have a full day to talk — softly, intentionally, and without pressure. We encourage you to exchange contact information and take the next step in a human way: a walk, a coffee, a dinner, a movie, or a video call if you're far apart. This is where connection becomes real.
After the chat window, your journey moves into your own hands. You're welcome to email us with your thoughts or share a review about your experience. And if you ever need guidance or support, our Help Centre is always open.